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  • Welcome to the New Year!

    Hi friends – This time of year always bring reflection and self-assessment.

    For many years I maintained a confident shell while inwardly I struggled. I would look around and see how other people seemed to have been wired to make good decisions and act unselfishly and was baffled by my own nature that tends more towards… well lets just say the opposite.

    I am pretty sure that I am not alone. I always resonated with Romans 7 where Paul talks about struggling with his nature and doing the things he hates. The other thing I see in this chapter is that no matter the circumstances or my natural inclination to react selfishly, with Jesus Christ’s help, I DO have a choice how I behave, and ultimately how I think.

    If life is hard and out of my control – I can choose to be joyful. I can choose to be positive. I can choose to trust Jesus.

    When I want to wallow in self-pity – I can choose not to. I can choose to find someone else to help. I can choose to be grateful for what I do have.

    When I want to spend all my money on things I want instead of saving – I can choose not to. I can choose to live with a budget and spent appropriately.

    When someone makes me angry – I can choose to take a breath and walk away from the situation instead of saying something I may later regret. I can choose to pray for them. I can choose to love them.

    It is a choice.

    Granted it can take some time and a LOT of prayer to make good choices, but I found that with taking the focus off of myself, I began to see changes in how I react.

    It was pretty simple once I got going. When I start to gave negative thoughts and feelings, here is what I do:

    1. Pray about it. Ask God to strengthen my mind and thoughts.
    2. Find verses that support my new mindset. (I will share a list soon.)
    3. Capture my thoughts and flip the script. I tell myself that I choose to trust Jesus and find my identity in Him, choose to rejoice, and choose kindness (towards myself and others).
    4. Repeat as necessary.

    It isn’t easy and it takes time, but we can change!

    In Him,

  • Taking a Break for the 2024 Holidays

    Just want to let you know that we are going to take the rest of the year off to focus on family and the holidays. See you in 2025!

    Wishing each of you a blessed and joy-filled holiday season, focused on the reason for the season!

    In Him,

  • Five Tips to Enrich Your Bible Study

    Studying the Bible can be such a beautiful way to connect with God and grow in your faith. But there are times we seem to stall out, or have a hard time finding ways to apply what we learn. If you’re looking to make your Bible study more fruitful, here are five simple tips I have found key to getting the most out of my time in the Word.

    Young Woman Studying the Word Of God in the Morning

    1. Pray for Guidance
    Before you even open your Bible, take a moment to pray. Ask God to open your heart and mind to what He wants to show you. The Holy Spirit is our guide when it comes to understanding Scripture, so invite Him to be a part of your study time. It sets the tone and opens you up to whatever God has in store. Trust me, it makes all the difference in focus and retention.

    2. Change up Your Study Method
    There’s no one-size-fits-all approach to Bible study, so find a method that resonates with you and if you find yourself stalling, explore another method. I enjoy inductive Bible study, but sometime there is too much going on in my life to really give it the time I would like, so I opt to do a guided study or simply read through the Bible and make notes. Use whatever method works for you, but don’t be afraid to change it up.

    3. Use Multiple Translations
    Reading from different Bible translations can bring new insights to familiar passages. Try comparing a more literal translation like the ESV with a contemporary one like the NIV. I also like to read the Amplified or Living Bible to get a sense of how that passage was interpreted by the version translators. Looking at different translations can help you see the nuances of the text and discover new layers of meaning.

    4. Take Notes
    As I mentioned in #2, writing things down can really deepen your understanding. Jot down verses that stand out, questions you have, or insights that come to you during your study. Your notes will not only help you reflect later, but they also create a personal record of your journey with God’s Word. One of my favorite things to do is to make an outline about what I have read. It takes a little more time than simply reading, but is not as intensive as an inductive study.

    5. Apply What You Learn
    The ultimate goal of Bible study isn’t just to gain knowledge—it’s to let God’s Word transform you. Take time to reflect on how the passage you’re studying applies to your life. How can you live out the truths you’ve discovered? Let Scripture shape your heart and actions.

    The bottom line is that your faith grows when you spend time in the Word. My prayer for you is that you make time to have a transformative Bible study experience that helps you grow closer to God each day.

    With Joy,

  • Thanksgiving: Make it a Lifestyle

    Thanksgiving is so much more than just turkey, football, and pumpkin pie (though those are awesome too!). For Christians, it’s a daily vibe, a chance to reflect on God’s goodness and live with a heart full of gratitude.

    1. Gratitude in Every Season
      1 Thessalonians 5:18 tells us to “give thanks in all circumstances.” I know, that’s not always easy, especially when life throws curveballs. But one of the best things about gratitude is that it doesn’t depend on what’s happening around us. We thank God for who He is and how He’s working, even when things get tough. We can choose to live with joy and gratitude.
    2. Counting Blessings
      It’s easy to miss the little blessings in life. This Thanksgiving, try to slow down and notice them—like a cozy cup of coffee, a friend’s kind words, or a beautiful sunset. Spend a few minutes at the table and ask your family to share how they feel blessed. When we take a moment to count our blessings, we see God’s handiwork everywhere!
    3. Giving Back
      Real thanksgiving makes us want to give back. When we realize how richly God has blessed us, it feels natural to share that love. Look for ways to pass on your blessings—maybe serve a meal, donate to a cause, or just brighten someone’s day with kind words.

    This Thanksgiving, let’s turn gratitude into a lifestyle, not just a holiday tradition!

    With Joy,

  • The Art of Being a Good Friend

    Friendship is such a beautiful gift from God, isn’t it? There’s something truly special about being a good friend—it’s more than just being there for someone; it’s about living out love the way Jesus showed us. If you’re ready to deepen your friendships, here are a few simple, yet meaningful, ways to love your friends well!

    1. Be Present
    One of the things I love most about Jesus is how present He was with people. Whether He was sharing a meal, walking with His disciples, or listening to someone’s story, He made people feel seen and valued. We can do the same. Put the phone down, make eye contact, and truly listen when your friends are talking. (Don’t think about what you are going to say next, listen!) Sometimes, just being there—really there—is the best way to show love.

    2. Encourage and Uplift
    Proverbs 17:17 says, “A friend loves at all times.” Isn’t that beautiful? Being a good friend means cheering each other on through all of life’s seasons, good and bad. Send a little text to let them know you’re thinking of them, pray for them, or remind them of the amazing person they are. Everyone needs a bit of encouragement, and those small gestures can make a world of difference.

    3. Speak Truth in Love
    Being a real friend also means being willing to have the tough conversations when needed. Proverbs 27:6 says, “Faithful are the wounds of a friend.” This doesn’t mean we hurt each other on purpose, but sometimes love requires us to speak truth, even when it’s hard. Do it with kindness and grace, and it can lead to growth for both of you.

    At the heart of it, friendship is a reflection of God’s love. So let’s make our friendships fun, authentic, and full of grace—just the way He intended!

    With Joy,

  • Inductive Bible Study: Digging Deeper into the Word

    Let’s take a moment to explore an incredible way to connect with God’s Word—inductive Bible study. This method helps you dive deeper into Scripture, not just reading it, but truly understanding and applying it in your life. It’s a journey of discovery where you let the Bible speak for itself, and it can transform the way you see and experience God’s truth.

    My first inductive study opened my eyes to how the Holy Spirit reveals truth when we take the time to slow down and really study the Bible. There are a lot of different methods out there, but the inductive study method has three steps that encourage you to dig deep.

    1. Observation: Slow Down and Look Closely
    The first step is to slow down and really see what’s written. As you read a passage, ask yourself questions like: Who is speaking? What’s happening here? When and where does this take place? Look for words that jump out at you—key phrases, things that are repeated, or contrasts that stand out. I like to use a notebook and make lists of what I observe, it makes the text come alive in a whole new way.

    2. Interpretation: Uncover the Meaning
    Once you’ve observed the text, the next step is to dig into its meaning. This is where context is so important—what’s happening before and after this passage? How does this fit into the bigger picture of the book or the Bible as a whole? You don’t have to do this alone—use tools like Bible commentaries, concordances, or cross-references to help you along. And most importantly, ask God for insight and wisdom as you seek to understand His Word.

    3. Application: Let It Change You
    Finally, the beauty of inductive Bible study comes when we let it transform us. Take time to reflect: What is God teaching me here? How can these truths shape my life, my decisions, my walk with Him? True Bible study isn’t just about gaining knowledge—it’s about letting God’s Word mold your heart and your life.

    Inductive Bible study takes some time and effort, but is a great way to grow your faith. You’re not just reading—you’re uncovering the richness and depth of God’s Word, allowing it to speak directly into your life.

    With joy,

  • Self-Care: A Biblical Approach to Rest and Renewal

    Let’s chat about self-care. Self-care is a term we hear all the time but often feel guilty about. Here’s the great news: taking care of yourself isn’t selfish; it’s actually biblical! God designed us to work hard, but He also wants us to rest and recharge. So, let’s dive into how you can practice self-care in a way that aligns with God’s teachings.

    1. Rest Like Jesus Did
      Even Jesus took time to rest and pray (Mark 1:35). If the Son of God needed to recharge, so do we! Find moments to step away from the hustle and bustle—whether it’s going for a walk, having quiet prayer time, or simply appreciating the beauty of nature.
    2. Nourish Your Body and Soul
      1 Corinthians 6:19 tells us that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit. This means getting enough sleep, eating well, and staying active aren’t just good ideas—they’re ways to honor God. Don’t forget your spiritual nourishment too. Spend time in God’s Word and worship, filling up your soul.
    3. Set Boundaries
      Jesus understood the importance of saying no. Establishing healthy boundaries is essential to prevent burnout and safeguard your well-being. This is definitely easier said than done. Sometimes it takes baby steps. Choose one place where you can set better boundaries and do it.

    Remember, self-care isn’t a luxury—it’s essential. When you take care of yourself, you’re better equipped to love others and serve God wholeheartedly!

    With Joy,

  • Facing Change – Trusting God Through Twists and Turns

    Change can feel like a rollercoaster—super exciting, but also kinda scary! Whether it’s starting a new job, moving to a new place, or dealing with an unexpected life twist, we all face change at some point, and it can be hard! Here are three things to remember when you are facing the turbulence of change.

    1. God Never Changes
      Hebrews 13:8 says, “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.” Life might throw us some wild pitches, but God’s character and promises are rock solid. When things feel shaky, you can always count on His steady presence.
    2. Embrace the Growth
      Change can be uncomfortable, but it’s also where we grow the most. Romans 5:3-4 mentions that challenges build perseverance, character, and hope. Instead of fighting change, lean into it and ask God what He’s teaching you during this time.
    3. Trust His Plan
      Jeremiah 29:11 tells us that God’s plans are for our good—even when we can’t see the whole picture. Trusting Him during times of change means letting go of control and believing He’s got everything covered.

    So, when change shows up, take a deep breath, step back, and tackle it with faith, knowing that God always has your back.

    With Joy,

  • Dress Up Your Home for the Holidays!

    “Christmas Decoration” by Ben White/ CC0 1.0

    Decorating for the holidays is such a fun way to set the mood and make your space feel warm and festive! I love creating a fun space for friends and family to enjoy and usually start putting up green garlands and wreaths in November with my pumpkins and change out to sparkly Christmas decor after Thanksgiving. But I’ll share more about that in another post. Today, I want to share some easy tips to help you transform your home into a holiday wonderland:

    1. Pick a Theme
      Start by choosing a color palette or theme—think classic red and green, cozy farmhouse vibes, or fun and funky pink, lime, and lavender. A theme keeps everything looking cohesive and gives you a game plan for your decorations.
    2. Focus on Key Spots
      Hit the high-traffic areas like the front door, living room, and dining table. A festive wreath on the door, a cute centerpiece on the table, and a garland over the mantel can make your home feel holiday-ready without going overboard.
    3. Repurpose, Reuse, Recycle
      Explore your home for items you can transform into holiday decor. Add a festive bow to a statue or vase. Tie a ribbon around a pillar candle. Refresh old holiday decor with a new coat of paint. Create and paint clay cookies to use as ornaments. There are countless ways to decorate for the holidays without breaking the bank.
    4. Bring Nature Inside
      Think pinecones, greenery, and berries! A garland made of evergreen branches or a vase filled with natural elements can bring that fresh, outdoorsy feel into your home and give your décor a timeless touch.
    5. Light It Up
      Twinkle lights are a must! Drape them around windows, trees, or your mantel to create a magical glow that instantly boosts the holiday spirit.

    With these simple tips, you’ll have a festive, welcoming space that’s perfect for celebrating the season in style!

    With Joy,

  • Work and Family – Keep God at the Center

    Balancing work and family can feel like juggling. Sometimes you’re in the groove, and other times, you’re dropping balls over and over again! The trick to finding peace in all the chaos? Keep God at the center of it all. Focusing on Him is key to balancing all the things you are juggling in life. So, how do we do that?


    Seek Him

    Matthew 6:33 says, “Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you.” When we put God first, He helps us get our priorities straight. Family is a blessing, and work is a calling, but neither should overshadow your relationship with God. Make time each day for Him. Find what works for you and spend time in the Word and prayer. It doesn’t have to be long, but it does have to be meaningful.


    Find time to Rest

    Jesus showed us the importance of rest and balance. He knew when to step away from the crowds and take time to recharge (Mark 6:31). It can be hard, but setting boundaries between work and family time is critical to creating balance. Protect family dinners, weekends, or even those quiet moments when you are able to slow down and connect with your loved ones. Tips:

    1. Set your phone to “do not disturb” mode after work hours.
    2. Schedule time to rest or spend time with friends and family.

    Give Yourself Grace

    No one is perfect. There will be days when work is overwhelming, and family time feels short, or you make mistakes. That’s okay! Trust in God’s grace to cover your efforts and know that He honors your desire to serve both faithfully.

    With God’s guidance, balancing work and family can be less of a struggle and more of a joy.

    With Joy,