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  • The Art of Being a Good Friend

    Friendship is such a beautiful gift from God, isn’t it? There’s something truly special about being a good friend—it’s more than just being there for someone; it’s about living out love the way Jesus showed us. If you’re ready to deepen your friendships, here are a few simple, yet meaningful, ways to love your friends well!

    1. Be Present
    One of the things I love most about Jesus is how present He was with people. Whether He was sharing a meal, walking with His disciples, or listening to someone’s story, He made people feel seen and valued. We can do the same. Put the phone down, make eye contact, and truly listen when your friends are talking. (Don’t think about what you are going to say next, listen!) Sometimes, just being there—really there—is the best way to show love.

    2. Encourage and Uplift
    Proverbs 17:17 says, “A friend loves at all times.” Isn’t that beautiful? Being a good friend means cheering each other on through all of life’s seasons, good and bad. Send a little text to let them know you’re thinking of them, pray for them, or remind them of the amazing person they are. Everyone needs a bit of encouragement, and those small gestures can make a world of difference.

    3. Speak Truth in Love
    Being a real friend also means being willing to have the tough conversations when needed. Proverbs 27:6 says, “Faithful are the wounds of a friend.” This doesn’t mean we hurt each other on purpose, but sometimes love requires us to speak truth, even when it’s hard. Do it with kindness and grace, and it can lead to growth for both of you.

    At the heart of it, friendship is a reflection of God’s love. So let’s make our friendships fun, authentic, and full of grace—just the way He intended!

    With Joy,

  • When a Friend Hurts You

    If you’ve ever been hurt by a close friend, you know how tough it can be. It’s confusing and painful, and you might be wondering, “What do I do now?” Here’s some good news: you don’t have to go through this alone. Jesus totally gets it and understands your pain.

    1. Jesus Was Betrayed Too
      Did you know Jesus went through betrayal himself? One of His closest friends, Judas, turned against Him (Luke 22:47-48). If anyone knows what you’re going through, it’s Him! Take comfort in knowing that Jesus sees your pain and really understands.
    2. Forgiveness is a Must
      It can be tempting to hold onto bitterness, but Ephesians 4:32 reminds us to “forgive one another, just as God in Christ forgave you.” Forgiveness doesn’t mean you forget what happened; it’s about letting go of the control betrayal has over you. Pray for the strength to forgive, even when it seems impossible.
    3. Trust God with Your Healing
      Healing from betrayal takes time, and that’s totally okay! Bring your hurt to God, who “heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds” (Psalm 147:3). Let Him guide you through this healing process. Trust Him to restore your peace and joy.

    With God’s grace, you can move forward with hope, even after the pain of betrayal. You’re not alone, and better days are ahead!

    With Joy,

  • Show A Little Kindness: Heartfelt Hospitality

    Hospitality is heartfelt and all about making people feel welcomed, valued, and comfortable—whether they’re in your home or you’re out and about. It’s more than just hosting; it’s a fun, generous mindset you can practice anywhere!

    1. Be Warm and Welcoming
      Greet people with a smile and make them feel at ease. Whether it’s a friend, family member, or someone you just met, showing genuine warmth makes everything more comfortable. Ask them how they’re doing and actually listen—it makes a huge difference!
    2. Create a Cozy Space
      If you’re hosting at home, don’t stress about making everything perfect. Tidy up, offer some snacks or drinks, and let your guests feel like they can kick back and relax. It’s all about the vibe, not perfection!
    3. Think Ahead
      Anticipate what your guests might need—a comfy seat, something to drink, or even just a good chat. Being thoughtful shows you care and makes people feel super appreciated.
    4. Give Generously
      Hospitality is all about giving—whether it’s your time, attention, or even just a little something to brighten someone’s day. Offer what you can, whether it’s a meal, a hand with something, or simply being present.
    5. Spread Kindness Everywhere
      You don’t need to be at home to show hospitality! Bring that welcoming attitude to work, in your community, or even during quick encounters. Being kind, patient, and gracious goes a long way.

    At the end of the day, hospitality is about being kind. It is an opportunity to show love and care; making sure the people around you feel valued and welcomed in your world!

    With Joy,