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  • The Art of Being a Good Friend

    Friendship is such a beautiful gift from God, isn’t it? There’s something truly special about being a good friend—it’s more than just being there for someone; it’s about living out love the way Jesus showed us. If you’re ready to deepen your friendships, here are a few simple, yet meaningful, ways to love your friends well!

    1. Be Present
    One of the things I love most about Jesus is how present He was with people. Whether He was sharing a meal, walking with His disciples, or listening to someone’s story, He made people feel seen and valued. We can do the same. Put the phone down, make eye contact, and truly listen when your friends are talking. (Don’t think about what you are going to say next, listen!) Sometimes, just being there—really there—is the best way to show love.

    2. Encourage and Uplift
    Proverbs 17:17 says, “A friend loves at all times.” Isn’t that beautiful? Being a good friend means cheering each other on through all of life’s seasons, good and bad. Send a little text to let them know you’re thinking of them, pray for them, or remind them of the amazing person they are. Everyone needs a bit of encouragement, and those small gestures can make a world of difference.

    3. Speak Truth in Love
    Being a real friend also means being willing to have the tough conversations when needed. Proverbs 27:6 says, “Faithful are the wounds of a friend.” This doesn’t mean we hurt each other on purpose, but sometimes love requires us to speak truth, even when it’s hard. Do it with kindness and grace, and it can lead to growth for both of you.

    At the heart of it, friendship is a reflection of God’s love. So let’s make our friendships fun, authentic, and full of grace—just the way He intended!

    With Joy,

  • When a Friend Hurts You

    If you’ve ever been hurt by a close friend, you know how tough it can be. It’s confusing and painful, and you might be wondering, “What do I do now?” Here’s some good news: you don’t have to go through this alone. Jesus totally gets it and understands your pain.

    1. Jesus Was Betrayed Too
      Did you know Jesus went through betrayal himself? One of His closest friends, Judas, turned against Him (Luke 22:47-48). If anyone knows what you’re going through, it’s Him! Take comfort in knowing that Jesus sees your pain and really understands.
    2. Forgiveness is a Must
      It can be tempting to hold onto bitterness, but Ephesians 4:32 reminds us to “forgive one another, just as God in Christ forgave you.” Forgiveness doesn’t mean you forget what happened; it’s about letting go of the control betrayal has over you. Pray for the strength to forgive, even when it seems impossible.
    3. Trust God with Your Healing
      Healing from betrayal takes time, and that’s totally okay! Bring your hurt to God, who “heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds” (Psalm 147:3). Let Him guide you through this healing process. Trust Him to restore your peace and joy.

    With God’s grace, you can move forward with hope, even after the pain of betrayal. You’re not alone, and better days are ahead!

    With Joy,